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If your former husband, your "wasband" told you it was your fault and that he blamed you for the divorce—he was wrong! If you blamed yourself you were also wrong because the problem happened long before the wedding. The problem in every marriage that ends in divorce occurred when you selected your partner; the first moment you…

I know what you’re thinking — women are masters of mixed signals and half of the time, they don’t know what they want. That's true in some cases. However, women and men just communicate in different ways. Men are more to the point and women are less direct than men and tend to dance around the point.…

Nonviolent Communication® Peacemaking in a Crisis Those of us who are trained in NVC have received a gift that is of paramount value now; we can self-soothe with Self-empathy. Self-empathy is always the first step in a crisis; the method to create enough peace within ourselves so that Empathy for others becomes possible. Those of…

Have you realized the #1 Key to the most successful relationships is that if YOU want THEM to care about you then YOU need to prove that you care about THEM? If we have a habit of judging this blocks our ability to connect in the most successful way; in a way that is mutually…