Category Archives: Heartspace™

In life, your most successful strategy is to learn how to generate peace today; now; the minute you realize that arguing can in fact threaten your life and your life span. If you haven’t learned advanced motivational skills then you will need a very skilled Mediator, right? It is dangerous to go along with your…

If you’re going through a divorce right now you already know how stressful and painful it can be because you’re dividing your family in half. If you’re already separated from your partner you probably miss your children and pets whenever your partner has custody and you don’t; right? For some parents this is torturous because…

If your former husband, your "wasband" told you it was your fault and that he blamed you for the divorce—he was wrong! If you blamed yourself you were also wrong because the problem happened long before the wedding. The problem in every marriage that ends in divorce occurred when you selected your partner; the first moment you…

I know what you’re thinking — women are masters of mixed signals and half of the time, they don’t know what they want. That's true in some cases. However, women and men just communicate in different ways. Men are more to the point and women are less direct than men and tend to dance around the point.…